When we think we are doing a good thing, when?

I am a mother of 4 amazing children 2 boys 2 girls. I do all I can  do for each one as I would  for the other. I treat neither one any differently. 19,boy,12, boy,17 girl and an 13. are the age group of my children. I am a stay home mother and am considered very much blessed to be able to be here for each one of them at all times. I try to get for them as much as I can, I feel that if there here with me all the time I know what there doing, and where they are and whom there with, but this does not stop them from being in danger as this seems to be pretty safe knowing I here right? Wrong. I did not come with instructions as a mother I am not perfect,nor am I saying how I am raising them is the wright way, but to me seems like I not doing so bad. I live for each one of them and I would do anything for all of them. I ask myself maybe that's it, maybe I am doing to much? I sit and observe each one of my babies. I seem to know  how they are as my child and a person. I am against abuse as I feel that this only teaches them violence. I also try to teach them to communicate with another. I like to know that when they come to a problem in life that each one of them are capable of handling what ever it maybe in a proper and communication is everything. If a problem comes about, how should they handle it? I again am far from perfect, but trying to be the best at what I am meant to be, a Mother, mommy, mom, & ma. I do not like to invade in anyone's privacy but of course when your child is a child and not capable of handling certain things in life, well then that's where I come in. Privacy to me is um-mm if your using the bathroom, PLEASE Knock before walking in please. I do not think that going through my child's things would be considered Violating there Privacy at all. I  do have every right as there mother to do so, I do feel as if I do not trust them but when it comes to Safety and there well being this is what it all boils down to! I have decided to come out and start talking about when we feel were doing wright and when it turns out wrong. Please understand everyone's different and everyone is raising there child differently than how someone else would there own. I am starting a blog because our child will not come to us for everything. We have to as always continue doing our own homework and always, always and never ever STOP, checking in with them. As you read on I would like to start another Post explaining to you what is going on here, not only online means a desktop computer or a laptop computer people, I mean everything and anything including people,electronics, all hand held devices,ear pieces,all game consoles, IPod touches, anything that anything to do with communication or communicating with anyone. Trust NO ONE!!!!!! Please continue to read .......  God Bless You and Yours